🌸 Finding My Tribe: When Women Create Space, Magic Happens 🌸
I think you already know—I’m big on girl communities, even with my very ambivert nature. I love my quiet time, but I also deeply crave connection. Real connection.
A few months ago, while scrolling on Instagram (as we all do), I came across Hercircle. mu . The page was all pink… and if you know me, you know that already had my attention. 💕
(And if I never said it before—yes, I love pink. Now you know.)
But beyond the aesthetics, what really stood out was the idea behind it: building connections and finding your tribe. Without thinking too much, I signed up for the waiting list.
And honestly, it made sense.
I’m in my 30s now, and life in this phase is different. My friends are still my people—but everyone is in their own rhythm. Different schedules, different priorities, different lifestyles.
And I realised something simple but real: even though I have my circle, only a few people truly share the same passions as me.
I’m talking about the little things:
- dressing up just because
- going out to pretty places and getting clicked
- trying TikTok trends (even if we’re shy at first 😅)
- working out and motivating each other
- reading, learning, growing
- having conversations where you feel seen and heard
You know… that kind of vibe.
Because let’s be honest—walking into a random space and starting conversations with strangers isn’t always easy. It can feel awkward, intimidating… like, “do I talk first or just smile politely?” ðŸ˜
✨ The First Gathering
On the 11th of April, the first ever meetup finally happened—and I can honestly say it was one of the best experiences I’ve had this year so far.
From the moment I walked in, everything felt intentional. The event was so well organised, so thoughtfully put together. You could feel the effort, the care, the purpose behind it. The Founder Henna Moosun did an amazing job together with her beautiful teammates.
There were games, laughter, good food, and just… good energy all around.
What really stood out was how the team during the event gently encouraged everyone to open up. They created a space where it didn’t feel forced—just soft prompts, shared moments, and the right environment for conversations to naturally begin.
And once it starts… it just flows.
💫 More Than Just Meeting People
What I loved the most is that it pushes you—gently, but intentionally—to step out and make new connections that are not based on proximity or convenience.
But people you choose.
The kind of people you can have deep, meaningful conversations with… and at the same time laugh until your stomach hurts.
The kind of connections that don’t drain you—but actually lighten you up.
And that? That is rare.
💫 Finding My Momentum
Now if you know me, you know I love talking. But I also need that little spark—that momentum. That moment where something clicks and suddenly I’m fully myself.
And that’s exactly what happened.
And after that? There was no stopping me. 😄
I even left with a gym partner—funny enough, we had been going to the same gym without ever meeting each other before. That alone says everything about how small yet connected life can be.
🌷 A Girl’s Girl Kind of Space
As a girl’s girl, this is exactly what we needed.
Sometimes you want to do things, meet people, try experiences… but life gets in the way. Work, responsibilities, timing—it all adds up.
But when something is set—when there’s a date on the calendar and a time on the clock—you show up. And that changes everything.
Because what this space gave us was simple but powerful: a girly tribe.
And honestly? Nothing beats that.
🌸 Looking Ahead
Now that I’ve experienced it, I can’t help but feel excited for what’s coming next.
Because if the first gathering felt this special… I can only imagine how beautiful, intentional, and meaningful the future events will be.
And I truly believe this is just the beginning of something really, really special. 💕
Note: All the above photo courtesy are from Hercircle.mu.
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