🌸 Finding My Tribe: When Women Create Space, Magic Happens 🌸

/ Friday, May 01, 2026

I think you already know—I’m big on girl communities, even with my very ambivert nature. I love my quiet time, but I also deeply crave connection. Real connection.

A few months ago, while scrolling on Instagram (as we all do), I came across Hercircle. mu . The page was all pink… and if you know me, you know that already had my attention. 💕

(And if I never said it before—yes, I love pink. Now you know.)

But beyond the aesthetics, what really stood out was the idea behind it: building connections and finding your tribe. Without thinking too much, I signed up for the waiting list.

And honestly, it made sense.

I’m in my 30s now, and life in this phase is different. My friends are still my people—but everyone is in their own rhythm. Different schedules, different priorities, different lifestyles.

And I realised something simple but real: even though I have my circle, only a few people truly share the same passions as me.

I’m talking about the little things:

  • dressing up just because
  • going out to pretty places and getting clicked
  • trying TikTok trends (even if we’re shy at first 😅)
  • working out and motivating each other
  • reading, learning, growing
  • having conversations where you feel seen and heard

You know… that kind of vibe.

Because let’s be honest—walking into a random space and starting conversations with strangers isn’t always easy. It can feel awkward, intimidating… like, “do I talk first or just smile politely?” 😭


✨ The First Gathering

On the 11th of April, the first ever meetup finally happened—and I can honestly say it was one of the best experiences I’ve had this year so far.

From the moment I walked in, everything felt intentional. The event was so well organised, so thoughtfully put together. You could feel the effort, the care, the purpose behind it. The Founder Henna Moosun did an amazing job together with her beautiful teammates.

There were games, laughter, good food, and just… good energy all around.

What really stood out was how the team during the event gently encouraged everyone to open up. They created a space where it didn’t feel forced—just soft prompts, shared moments, and the right environment for conversations to naturally begin.

And once it starts… it just flows.


💫 More Than Just Meeting People

What I loved the most is that it pushes you—gently, but intentionally—to step out and make new connections that are not based on proximity or convenience.



Not just the people you see every day.
Not just the ones life placed around you.

But people you choose.

People who match your energy.
People who push you to grow.
People who understand you without needing too many explanations.
People who teach you new things, inspire you, and open your mind.

The kind of people you can have deep, meaningful conversations with… and at the same time laugh until your stomach hurts.

The kind of connections that don’t drain you—but actually lighten you up.

And that? That is rare.


💫 Finding My Momentum

Now if you know me, you know I love talking. But I also need that little spark—that momentum. That moment where something clicks and suddenly I’m fully myself.

And that’s exactly what happened.



One conversation turned into another.
Strangers slowly became familiar faces.
And before I knew it, I was completely in my element—laughing, sharing, connecting.

And after that? There was no stopping me. 😄

I even left with a gym partner—funny enough, we had been going to the same gym without ever meeting each other before. That alone says everything about how small yet connected life can be.


🌷 A Girl’s Girl Kind of Space

As a girl’s girl, this is exactly what we needed.

Sometimes you want to do things, meet people, try experiences… but life gets in the way. Work, responsibilities, timing—it all adds up.

But when something is set—when there’s a date on the calendar and a time on the clock—you show up. And that changes everything.

Because what this space gave us was simple but powerful: a girly tribe.

A space where women can show up as they are.
Where there is no competition, no pressure—just connection.
Soft feminine energy. Real conversations. Real presence.

And honestly? Nothing beats that.


🌸 Looking Ahead

Now that I’ve experienced it, I can’t help but feel excited for what’s coming next.

Because if the first gathering felt this special… I can only imagine how beautiful, intentional, and meaningful the future events will be.

And I truly believe this is just the beginning of something really, really special. 💕


Note: All the above photo courtesy are from Hercircle.mu. 




I think you already know—I’m big on girl communities, even with my very ambivert nature. I love my quiet time, but I also deeply crave connection. Real connection.

A few months ago, while scrolling on Instagram (as we all do), I came across Hercircle. mu . The page was all pink… and if you know me, you know that already had my attention. 💕

(And if I never said it before—yes, I love pink. Now you know.)

But beyond the aesthetics, what really stood out was the idea behind it: building connections and finding your tribe. Without thinking too much, I signed up for the waiting list.

And honestly, it made sense.

I’m in my 30s now, and life in this phase is different. My friends are still my people—but everyone is in their own rhythm. Different schedules, different priorities, different lifestyles.

And I realised something simple but real: even though I have my circle, only a few people truly share the same passions as me.

I’m talking about the little things:

  • dressing up just because
  • going out to pretty places and getting clicked
  • trying TikTok trends (even if we’re shy at first 😅)
  • working out and motivating each other
  • reading, learning, growing
  • having conversations where you feel seen and heard

You know… that kind of vibe.

Because let’s be honest—walking into a random space and starting conversations with strangers isn’t always easy. It can feel awkward, intimidating… like, “do I talk first or just smile politely?” 😭


✨ The First Gathering

On the 11th of April, the first ever meetup finally happened—and I can honestly say it was one of the best experiences I’ve had this year so far.

From the moment I walked in, everything felt intentional. The event was so well organised, so thoughtfully put together. You could feel the effort, the care, the purpose behind it. The Founder Henna Moosun did an amazing job together with her beautiful teammates.

There were games, laughter, good food, and just… good energy all around.

What really stood out was how the team during the event gently encouraged everyone to open up. They created a space where it didn’t feel forced—just soft prompts, shared moments, and the right environment for conversations to naturally begin.

And once it starts… it just flows.


💫 More Than Just Meeting People

What I loved the most is that it pushes you—gently, but intentionally—to step out and make new connections that are not based on proximity or convenience.



Not just the people you see every day.
Not just the ones life placed around you.

But people you choose.

People who match your energy.
People who push you to grow.
People who understand you without needing too many explanations.
People who teach you new things, inspire you, and open your mind.

The kind of people you can have deep, meaningful conversations with… and at the same time laugh until your stomach hurts.

The kind of connections that don’t drain you—but actually lighten you up.

And that? That is rare.


💫 Finding My Momentum

Now if you know me, you know I love talking. But I also need that little spark—that momentum. That moment where something clicks and suddenly I’m fully myself.

And that’s exactly what happened.



One conversation turned into another.
Strangers slowly became familiar faces.
And before I knew it, I was completely in my element—laughing, sharing, connecting.

And after that? There was no stopping me. 😄

I even left with a gym partner—funny enough, we had been going to the same gym without ever meeting each other before. That alone says everything about how small yet connected life can be.


🌷 A Girl’s Girl Kind of Space

As a girl’s girl, this is exactly what we needed.

Sometimes you want to do things, meet people, try experiences… but life gets in the way. Work, responsibilities, timing—it all adds up.

But when something is set—when there’s a date on the calendar and a time on the clock—you show up. And that changes everything.

Because what this space gave us was simple but powerful: a girly tribe.

A space where women can show up as they are.
Where there is no competition, no pressure—just connection.
Soft feminine energy. Real conversations. Real presence.

And honestly? Nothing beats that.


🌸 Looking Ahead

Now that I’ve experienced it, I can’t help but feel excited for what’s coming next.

Because if the first gathering felt this special… I can only imagine how beautiful, intentional, and meaningful the future events will be.

And I truly believe this is just the beginning of something really, really special. 💕


Note: All the above photo courtesy are from Hercircle.mu. 




Continue Reading

Hey you… yes you 👀

If you’re looking for a cute little feel-good book to relax your mind—this is not it 😅

I’ve been reading 101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think by Brianna Wiest, and honestly? This one will make your brain do overtime.


💭 It Makes You Think… Like Actually Think

You know when you’re just going through life on autopilot—work, eat, scroll, sleep, repeat?
Yeah… this book will interrupt that real quick.

Some essays had me just sitting there like,
“Wait… why am I like this?” 😭

And that’s exactly why I took my time with it.

I didn’t rush it. I couldn’t.
Because some essays? I had to read them again… and again.

Not because they were hard—but because they hit me right where it needed to.

And I needed that.
I needed that moment to pause and reflect on my life.


🧠 Rewiring the Brain (Yes, We’re Going There)

If you’ve been following this blog, you already know—I’m big on working on myself, romanticising life, and just trying to be better in my own little way ✨

And this book? It really pushes your brain to work in ways you normally avoid.

It’s like it brings up things you already know
but you’re just not ready to act on.

Because let’s be honest—we love our comfort zone 😅

There’s always that little voice in your head saying,
“I know what I should do… but not today.”

This book calls that out.

Not aggressively… but enough to make you uncomfortable in a good way.

And honestly? Rewiring your brain, even a little, can change so much in your life.




🌺 Island Life & The Little Things

Living our island life, we’re surrounded by simple blessings every day—good food, family, sunshine, fresh air, beach days…

And we don’t even realise how lucky we are.

This book reminded me to slow down and actually see those things again.

To be grateful for what feels “normal” to us.

Because what’s normal for us… is someone else’s dream.


🔁 Yes, It Repeats… But Maybe We Need That

I won’t lie—some parts are repetitive.

You’ll read something and think, “okay, we’ve been here before” 😅

But maybe that’s the whole point.

Because we don’t change from hearing something once.
We change when it finally clicks.


📖 Take It With a Pinch of Salt

Now let me be clear—this book is not the holy bible.

Not every essay will apply to you.
Not every message will hit.

And that’s okay.

Take what speaks to you… and leave the rest.

At the end of the day, it’s just one more book—but one that can still add something to your perspective, your mindset, your way of seeing life.


✨ Final Thoughts: Worth the Read? Yes. Perfect? No.

It’s not perfect.
It’s not for entertainment like a novel.

But it’s real. It’s reflective. It makes you think.

And sometimes, that’s exactly what we need.

So if you’re ready to get a little uncomfortable, reflect a bit deeper, and maybe shift your mindset just a little…

Give it a try 💛


💬 Tell me…

Are you someone who actually sits with their thoughts… or do you avoid them? 😏


Until next time,



 A little birthday reflection… 🤍


Turning 34 feels different. Not loud, not dramatic… just calm, grounded, and real. Like I’m slowly stepping into a version of myself that I actually understand.

I don’t have everything figured out—and honestly, I don’t think I need to anymore. What I do have is clarity, peace (most days 😅), and a deep sense of gratitude for the life I’m living.

And that counts for a lot.


Becoming her, slowly but surely 💫

One thing about me—I will always choose growth.

This year, I pushed myself in ways I didn’t expect. I tried pole flow (still can’t believe it sometimes 😭), and discovered strength, confidence, and femininity in a whole new way. I showed up to Zumba classes just to feel good, to move, to laugh, to let go. And of course, the gym—weightlifting became less about aesthetics and more about discipline, strength, and showing up for myself even on the days I don’t feel like it.

And beyond my body, I’ve been working on my mind too. Reading more, thinking deeper, reflecting on who I am and who I want to become.

Because growth is not just physical—it’s mental, emotional, spiritual… it’s everything.


Marriage, priorities & choosing what makes sense 💍✨

Being married has also shifted my perspective in the most natural way.

My priorities look different now—and I’m okay with that. Actually, more than okay. It makes sense to me. This phase of my life comes with its own rhythm, its own responsibilities, its own kind of love and stability.

And I’ve learned that you can build a life with someone and still continue building yourself at the same time.

It’s not either or. It’s balance. It’s intention.


No timeline, no pressure 🌊

At 34, I’ve truly understood this:

There is no mould I need to fit into.
There is no timeline I need to follow.

We’re all out here living completely different lives, and that’s the beauty of it.

Some are starting over, some are settling down, some are still figuring things out—and all of it is valid.

As an adult, you’re responsible for your choices. And that can feel scary sometimes, but it’s also empowering.

Because it means you get to choose your life.


What I’m choosing at 34 🌿

I’m choosing to:
✨ Grow at my own pace
✨ Stay consistent, not perfect
✨ Take care of my body and my mind
✨ Protect my peace (this one is non-negotiable 😌)
✨ Celebrate the small wins, because they matter too

I’m learning to be soft with myself, but also to hold myself accountable.


Grateful, always 🤍

I may not be exactly where I thought I would be at this age—but I’m exactly where I need to be.

And honestly… I like who I’m becoming.

Still learning. Still evolving. Still figuring things out. But doing it with more awareness, more intention, and a lot more self-love.

And that’s enough for me.


To every woman reading this 💕

Whether you’re a young mom, focused on your career, healing, growing, or just trying to get through the day—please remember this:

You are not late.
You are not behind.

You are on your own path, in your own time.

And that is your power ✨