🌿 A Road Trip Through Memories: Rediscovering Mauritius with My Siblings

/ Friday, November 07, 2025

There’s something about road trips that brings out the best kind of nostalgia — the kind that sneaks up between laughter, songs, and long stretches of silence filled with comfort. When my brother came back to Mauritius after years away, I knew we had to do something special. He’s always been drawn to nature — the stillness of trees, the sound of wind brushing through sugarcane fields — so naturally, a scenic drive around the island felt like the perfect way to reconnect.

That morning, it was just the three of us — my brother, my sister, and I. Three adults with different lives, different stories, and yet, the same roots that keep pulling us back to each other. We packed light, grabbed a few snacks, and hit the road towards Midlands Dam.

As we climbed higher, the air turned crisp and cool. The roads curved gently around lush greenery, and the view of the water was a serene blue mirror stretching into the hills. It’s funny how you can live on this island your whole life and still find yourself amazed by its quiet beauty — a reminder that sometimes, we don’t need to leave to feel the magic of elsewhere.

From Midlands, we took the road through Riche en Eau, a route that feels almost forgotten — where the trees form a canopy above, and the sunlight filters through like a soft mosaic. The drive was peaceful, dotted with the occasional car, and endless fields on both sides. We stopped a few times — sometimes to take photos, sometimes just to breathe.

We ended up in Mahebourg, a place that always feels like home, no matter how many times you visit. The waterfront was calm, with fishermen sitting by the edge, boats swaying lazily, and the faint smell of sea salt in the air. From there, we drove to Bois des Amourettes, where the bridge stretches over turquoise water — the kind of place where you can’t help but slow down and take it all in.

 

But honestly, the best part of the trip wasn’t the views. It was the conversations. The kind that flow naturally on long drives — about how much the island has changed, how much we’ve changed. About work, marriage, memories from when we were kids. There were moments of laughter, a few quiet pauses, and that familiar feeling of knowing you don’t need to fill every silence — just being together was enough.

If you’ve been reading my blog for a while, you might remember that I once wrote about the bond I share with my sister. But I’ve never written about my brother before — he was always the one missing from the picture, living abroad, chasing dreams elsewhere. This time, it felt different.

We’re all grown up now — navigating adulthood in our own ways. But sitting in that car, singing old songs and teasing each other about our snack choices, it didn’t feel like adulthood at all. It felt like being home.

Sometimes, a road trip isn’t just about discovering new places — it’s about rediscovering the people who make those places matter. And that day, I realised that Mauritius isn’t just my home island. It’s the thread that ties our stories together — the quiet witness to who we were, and who we’re still becoming.

Until next time,



There’s something about road trips that brings out the best kind of nostalgia — the kind that sneaks up between laughter, songs, and long stretches of silence filled with comfort. When my brother came back to Mauritius after years away, I knew we had to do something special. He’s always been drawn to nature — the stillness of trees, the sound of wind brushing through sugarcane fields — so naturally, a scenic drive around the island felt like the perfect way to reconnect.

That morning, it was just the three of us — my brother, my sister, and I. Three adults with different lives, different stories, and yet, the same roots that keep pulling us back to each other. We packed light, grabbed a few snacks, and hit the road towards Midlands Dam.

As we climbed higher, the air turned crisp and cool. The roads curved gently around lush greenery, and the view of the water was a serene blue mirror stretching into the hills. It’s funny how you can live on this island your whole life and still find yourself amazed by its quiet beauty — a reminder that sometimes, we don’t need to leave to feel the magic of elsewhere.

From Midlands, we took the road through Riche en Eau, a route that feels almost forgotten — where the trees form a canopy above, and the sunlight filters through like a soft mosaic. The drive was peaceful, dotted with the occasional car, and endless fields on both sides. We stopped a few times — sometimes to take photos, sometimes just to breathe.

We ended up in Mahebourg, a place that always feels like home, no matter how many times you visit. The waterfront was calm, with fishermen sitting by the edge, boats swaying lazily, and the faint smell of sea salt in the air. From there, we drove to Bois des Amourettes, where the bridge stretches over turquoise water — the kind of place where you can’t help but slow down and take it all in.

 

But honestly, the best part of the trip wasn’t the views. It was the conversations. The kind that flow naturally on long drives — about how much the island has changed, how much we’ve changed. About work, marriage, memories from when we were kids. There were moments of laughter, a few quiet pauses, and that familiar feeling of knowing you don’t need to fill every silence — just being together was enough.

If you’ve been reading my blog for a while, you might remember that I once wrote about the bond I share with my sister. But I’ve never written about my brother before — he was always the one missing from the picture, living abroad, chasing dreams elsewhere. This time, it felt different.

We’re all grown up now — navigating adulthood in our own ways. But sitting in that car, singing old songs and teasing each other about our snack choices, it didn’t feel like adulthood at all. It felt like being home.

Sometimes, a road trip isn’t just about discovering new places — it’s about rediscovering the people who make those places matter. And that day, I realised that Mauritius isn’t just my home island. It’s the thread that ties our stories together — the quiet witness to who we were, and who we’re still becoming.

Until next time,



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Reflections from an island girl learning to slow down but still glow up

I just finished reading Ikigai — and honestly, this book doesn’t just teach you how to live longer. It teaches you how to live better.

It’s soft and calming, yet deeply powerful. The kind of book that makes you question your pace, your habits, and even your purpose.

The Okinawans, who inspired the book, live in this beautiful rhythm — slow mornings, meaningful movement, laughter, gratitude, and purpose that flows gently through their days.

Meanwhile, here I am — juggling work, family, fitness, social life, goals, and an endless to-do list. I do what I love, but I can’t seem to slow down. My life feels like a checklist that constantly needs to be ticked off.

That’s where the struggle lies, my beautiful people. Ikigai tells me to live with calm, but I live in motion.
Still, the more I read, the more I realized — maybe Ikigai isn’t about slowing down completely. Maybe it’s about finding peace in the pace I already live in.


🌿 1. Stay active, don’t retire

Okinawans believe that movement keeps you alive — not just physically, but emotionally.

Here in Mauritius, our parents unknowingly live by this. They move constantly — cooking, cleaning, gardening, caring for others. Their activity is woven into their everyday lives.

But for them, movement is duty.
For us, it’s self-care.

Maybe the balance is in honouring both — doing what needs to be done, but also doing what keeps our hearts alive, you know. 


☕️ 2. Take it slow

This one is my biggest challenge.

I’ve built a lifestyle where speed feels normal. I thrive in chaos, yet crave calm.
But slowing down doesn’t mean doing less — it means being more present while doing what you love.

Maybe I don’t need to stop chasing things — maybe I just need to stop rushing through them.


🥢 3. Don’t fill your stomach

Eat with gratitude, not greed.
That one simple principle says a lot about how we live.

Our grandmas knew what it meant to eat light, to sip herbal tea after dinner, to listen to the body. Today, with all the rush and all the good food available, we forget that food is fuel — not filler.


👭 4. Surround yourself with good friends

In Okinawa, they have moai — small lifelong circles of friends who support each other.

We have that too, in our Mauritian way — the family gatherings, tea-time laughs, Sunday lunches that turn into whole-day stories.

But as we grow busier, friendships fade into texts and missed calls.
Maybe part of finding our ikigai is making time for the people who remind us of who we are.


💪 5. Get in shape for your next birthday

When I tell my mom I’m going to the gym, she frowns and says,

“To pan assez galoupé pu zordi?!” (“Haven't you already done enough running around for today?!”)

For her, strength means working through the day without complaining.
For me, strength means lifting, sweating, moving — not just to look good, but to feel strong.

Different generations. Same goal: longevity.


😊 6. Smile

A smile is the simplest way to lift the spirit — yet the easiest to forget when life gets heavy.

The Okinawans smile through everything. They know that joy isn’t the absence of problems; it’s the ability to keep your heart light despite them.

Maybe smiling is our best form of resilience. And this is what I do the best: Smilllleee :)


🌸 7. Reconnect with nature

We live on one of the most beautiful islands in the world — beaches, mountains, sunrise views that look like paintings.

But how often do we truly take it in?
Sometimes reconnecting with nature doesn’t mean a grand hike — it’s just stepping outside barefoot, feeling the grass, watching the sky change colors, or going on a long drive.

Nature heals in quiet ways.


🙏 8. Give thanks

Gratitude doesn’t have to be dramatic. It’s in the tiny moments — your morning coffee, a quiet drive, your body’s strength, the people who show up for you.

Our grandparents prayed out of habit. We can too — not out of obligation, but appreciation.


🕰 9. Live in the moment

Our parents love to reminisce — “before was better.”
We, on the other hand, are always looking ahead — the next goal, the next trip, the next thing.

But Ikigai teaches that happiness lives in the now.
Maybe the “good old days” are not behind us. Maybe they’re happening right here.


💖 10. Follow your Ikigai

Your Ikigai — your reason for being — doesn’t have to be one grand purpose.
It can be a collection of little joys that make your life yours: your work, your passions, your family, your peace, your coffee ritual, your gym sessions, your laughter.

For me, my Ikigai changes with time — but it’s always rooted in what keeps my heart aligned.


🌺 Our Mauritian version of Ikigai

We don’t need to copy the Okinawan lifestyle to embrace its wisdom.
We just need to find our own rhythm within it.

Our Mauritian Ikigai might look like this:

  • Sunday family lunches that feed more than just our stomachs.

  • Evening beach walks with salty air and unfiltered laughter.

  • Caring for others without forgetting ourselves.

  • Moving our bodies not out of guilt, but gratitude.

  • Living passionately — even when it’s fast-paced.

Maybe Ikigai isn’t about doing less.
Maybe it’s about doing everything — but with love, intention, and grace.

Because peace doesn’t always come from slowing down.
Sometimes, it’s found in the beautiful chaos we choose to create. 💕

Until next time, 


 

Let’s Be Honest… Life Feels Like a Race. 

Some days it feels like 24 hours just isn’t enough. We wake up, rush to work, battle traffic, try to stay fit, eat healthy, maintain glowing skin, keep the house clean, and still show up for our loved ones. Somewhere along the way, we were made to believe that if we’re not constantly doing something, we’re failing. And honestly? I’m exhausted.

I work as a public officer (and no, not your typical “fonctionnaire” stereotype!). After my 9–5, there are wife duties, the gym grind, skincare routines, and reading to feed the soul. Add to that the never-ending list of chores—laundry, dishes, groceries. Oh, and the most dreaded daily question: What’s for dinner?


It’s a lot. Some days you sacrifice one thing just to tick off another. But here’s what a real day looks like for me:


My Typical Day (Spoiler: It’s Not Glamorous)

  • 8 AM: Leave home. But first—traffic. That “20-minute” drive? More like 60–75 minutes. By the time I get to work, I’ve already lost my will to live.

  • 9 AM: Work officially starts. Coffee becomes my lifeline.

  • 4–5 PM: Done with work… but not really. Detour to the supermarket because apparently, food doesn’t magically appear in the fridge (why though?!)

  • Evening: The daily dinner debate. Why does deciding what to cook feel like sitting for an exam? Humans are complicated – we want variety, so no, we can’t just eat roti every day (even if secretly, we want to).

  • Then: Gym time. Because if I skip, guilt comes knocking.

  • Back home: Laundry, dishes, tidying up—because apparently the house fairy has resigned.

  • Finally: Skincare, Netflix, maybe a book if my eyelids don’t betray me. Suddenly it’s midnight. That mythical 8 hours of sleep? Cute, but I’m lucky if I hit 5.

Sound familiar? If yes, welcome to the club, peeps. But here’s how I keep myself from burning out completely.


5 Ways to Balance It All Without Losing My Mind

✅ 1. Prioritize Like a Boss

Not everything needs to happen today. Your laundry can survive an extra day. Learn to rank tasks: urgent, important, and “nice to do.”

✅ 2. Meal Plan (Seriously, It Helps)

The mental gymnastics of deciding dinner every night is exhausting. A little meal planning = fewer arguments, fewer headaches, and more time.

✅ 3. Spread Out the Chores

Laundry doesn’t have to be daily unless you’re running a hotel. Batch tasks across the week instead of cramming them all into one night.

✅ 4. Sneak in Micro Self-Care

No spa day? No problem. Do a face mask while folding laundry. Stretch while waiting for pasta to boil. Self-care doesn’t have to be fancy—it just has to happen.

✅ 5. Protect Sleep (As Much As You Can)

Yes, I’m the queen of 5-hour nights. But even then, I try to make it count: no late caffeine, no endless scrolling before bed, and lights out at a decent time. Netflix can wait.


What If You Can’t Get 8 Hours of Sleep?

If you’re like me, 7–8 hours feels like a fairy tale. Most nights, 5 hours is all I get. Here’s how I make it work:

✔ Make it high quality. Dark, cool room. Phone on silent. A calming wind-down ritual.
✔ Power naps save lives. Even 15 minutes at lunch can recharge you.
✔ Ditch sleep killers. Late-night sugar, screens, or that extra cup of coffee ruin rest.
✔ Batch & delegate chores. Laundry mountain can wait. Share tasks if possible.
✔ Trade “one more episode” for rest. Hard, I know. But 'future you' will thank you.


The Bottom Line

Balancing work, life, and self-care isn’t about doing everything perfectly—it’s about not losing your sanity in the process. Give yourself permission to slow down. Skip a chore if it means you can breathe. Remember: life isn’t a race.

Take a deep breath. You’ve got this, my beautiful people💛

Until next post,